{"id":24365,"date":"2020-11-10T05:00:32","date_gmt":"2020-11-10T05:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/index.php\/home\/"},"modified":"2025-06-04T12:38:09","modified_gmt":"2025-06-04T12:38:09","slug":"home","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/","title":{"rendered":"Home"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>\n\t\t\t\tBuilding the Domestic Church one Marriage at a Time\n\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/index.php\/contact\/\" title=\"Click Here\" target=\"_self\"   role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Book Us\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBook Us\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG-0141-1-886x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"IMG-0141 (1)\" title=\"IMG-0141 (1)\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_4084.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_4084\" title=\"IMG_4084\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<p>Mike grew up in Buffalo, NY, the middle of three children, son of Wray Carlton, fullback for the Buffalo Bills. Laurie was raised in Youngstown, OH, the oldest of three, daughter of a Lebanese Maronite father and convert mother. They met in 1988 at Miami University, Oxford Ohio, where Mike played football and Laurie was on the dance team.\u00a0They were married in Youngstown, Ohio in July of 1991 as an interfaith couple, Mike being Presbyterian and Laurie a cradle Catholic.\u00a0 They began their marriage in Cincinnati, &#8220;church shopping&#8221; and working for six years before having children, then moving to Atlanta in 1997, which changed everything for them as a couple.\u00a0 Mike converted to the Catholic Church, they had six children and set up marriage ministries in their parish and the diocese.\u00a0 They were the founders of MAC, Marriages Are Covenants ministry, and more recently PROMISE, Program to Renew and Optimize Marriages in Sacramental Enrichment.\u00a0 In addition, they have given talks at churches around Atlanta, been interviewed on Catholic Radio and televised on EWTN Catholics Come Home program.\u00a0 For additional information regarding their ministry or to book them as speakers, go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.mikeandlauriecarlton.com<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/integratedcatholiclife.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">integratedcatholiclife.org<\/a> (Integrated Catholic Life) where Mike is a writer and speaker.<\/p>\n\t<h1>\n\t\t\t\tMiami Merger\n\t\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t<p>The university&#8217;s most well-known tradition, When two hearts beat as one and both attended Miami, it&#8217;s a Miami Merger. If you kiss under the Upham Hall Arch, you will marry and the bond will never be broken.<\/p>\t\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/tumblr_p3qup2TA3b1u80hloo1_640.jpg\" alt=\"tumblr_p3qup2TA3b1u80hloo1_640\" title=\"tumblr_p3qup2TA3b1u80hloo1_640\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<p>Yeager Stadium, Fall 1989<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Upham-Arch--scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Upham Arches\" title=\"Upham Arches\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<p>Upham Arch, Spring 2018<\/p>\n\t<h2>\n\t\t\t\tMarriage Insights and Interviews\n\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Journey-Home.png\" alt=\"Journey Home\" title=\"Journey Home\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<h3>\n\t\t\t\tJourney Home\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t<p>EWTN Global Catholic Television Network: Journey Home &#8211; Marcus Grodi &#8211; Mike Carlton &#8211; Former Presbyterian<\/p>\t\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=0yRcY9FQ6s0\" title=\"Click Here\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"  role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Video\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tVideo\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Catholics-come-home.png\" alt=\"Catholics come home\" title=\"Catholics come home\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<h3>\n\t\t\t\tCatholics Come Home\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t<p>Couple overcomes challenge, now cheerleads for stronger Catholic marriages. Discover how the Holy Spirit transformed the Carltons independent challenges into a holy plan for a healthy marriage and family. Hear how the near death of their son solidified their prayer life and trust in God.<\/p>\t\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=gVC33iDDFP4\" title=\"Click Here\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"  role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Video\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tVideo\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/wife-and-husband-sunset-holding-hands-featured-w740x493.jpg\" alt=\"wife-and-husband-sunset-holding-hands-featured-w740x493\" title=\"wife-and-husband-sunset-holding-hands-featured-w740x493\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<h3>\n\t\t\t\tThe Marriage Minute\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t<p>What makes a good marriage? What takes a couple from that special ceremony to their 25th anniversary and beyond?<\/p>\t\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/integratedcatholiclife.org\/2018\/06\/the-marriage-minute\/\" title=\"Click Here\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"  role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Audio\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tAudio\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/The-Carltons.jpg\" alt=\"The-Carltons\" title=\"The-Carltons\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<h3>\n\t\t\t\tSo Helpful for Young Parents\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t<p>Mike and Laurie describe how useful this program is for young families, and how they would have benefitted<\/p>\t\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/firstfruits.family\/helpful-for-young-parents\/\" title=\"Click Here\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"  role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Video\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tVideo\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/Screenshot-2024-10-31-at-10.52.35\u202fAM.png\" alt=\"Screenshot 2024-10-31 at 10.52.35\u202fAM\" title=\"Screenshot 2024-10-31 at 10.52.35\u202fAM\" itemprop=\"image\"\/>\n\t<h3>\n\t\t\t\tGala Chair Couple 2024\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t<p>Laurie and Mike Carlton recorded live at the Thy Kingdom Come! RC Atlanta Gala on Sunday, October 20, at the Georgia Aquarium.<\/p>\t\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=_0Nlnfx1s5Q\" title=\"Click Here\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"  role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Video\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tVideo\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t<h2>\n\t\t\t\tFeatured Speaking Engagements\n\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Explore our Featured Speaking Engagements, where we delve into insightful discussions on three distinct facets of marriage, sharing wisdom, faith, and personal experiences to inspire and strengthen couples on their marital journey.<\/p>\t\n\t<h3>\n\t\t\t\tTemperaments God gave you\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t<p>In our speaking engagement titled &#8216;Temperaments God Gave You,&#8217; we delve into the fascinating world of personality temperaments, helping couples discover how their unique traits and tendencies can enrich their marriage, deepen their understanding of each other, and strengthen their bond in God&#8217;s love.<\/p>\t\n\t<h3>\n\t\t\t\tLove Languages\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t<p>In our Love Languages speaking engagement, we guide couples on a journey of self-discovery and connection, helping them unlock the profound language of love to nurture deeper emotional intimacy and lasting harmony in their marriage.<\/p>\t\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/mikeandlauriecarlton.com\/index.php\/contact\/\" title=\"Click Here\" target=\"_self\"   role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Book Us\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBook Us\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t<h2>\n\t\t\t\tMission and Testimonials\n\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\tOur mission is to educate couples to forge deeper connections through divine understanding and mutual respect. We believe that the sacred covenant of marriage is both a heavenly gift and a lifelong journey of growth. Through our engaging talks on the temperaments God has bestowed, the universal languages of love, and the harmonious blend of masculine and feminine energies, we aim to provide couples with the knowledge and tools to celebrate their unity in diversity. As we illuminate paths to emotional intimacy and spiritual bonding, we are committed to nurturing marriages that stand as testaments of love, grace, and enduring partnership in faith.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='uabb-testimonial-author-name testimonial-author-name'>Bruce Carlisle<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em>&#8220;We have found that by attending regular gatherings like PROMISE, we are better able to keep our focus on serving and loving one another and God. Being around like-minded couples is a great reminder of the witnesses we are called to be to the world. \u00a0PROMISE is a great program to strengthen our marriage.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='uabb-testimonial-author-name testimonial-author-name'>Jeff and Lisa Showalter<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSt. Peter Chanel Catholic Church\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em>&#8220;The Promise ministry gives Lisa and I a chance to get away from the kids for a date night to focus on us. \u00a0The fellowship and talks are very helpful and give us new tools to help our marriage.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='uabb-testimonial-author-name testimonial-author-name'>Dina and Vince Vassil<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSt. Peter Chanel Catholic Church\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em>&#8220;This marriage program offers us a nice date night that includes more than just dinner. \u00a0It offers us content that we use to help our relationship.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Building the Domestic Church one Marriage at a Time Book Us Mike grew up in Buffalo, NY, the middle of three children, son of Wray Carlton, fullback for the Buffalo Bills. 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